Kiss and Tell

First kisses are almost always the best. And in my case, you know it's the best when you want to experience it the same way every time and have the same feelings every time. Always having that first kiss adrenaline.

But what if after that first kiss you wonder if that's all it's ever going to be. Do we get into relationships knowing that there may not be a future, or do we opt out still not knowing if a future would have happened. It's all so confusing. I know I will never understand what is going through the male mind, and I know I will never be completely understood, but I really wish my mind could shut itself off from all of the confusion that comes with starting something new. It's a wonderful feeling when you start a new relationship, and if that good feeling could last forever, then it's perfection. But perfection is an unrealistic expectation. However, if you could view perfection as being something that includes imperfection, then that expectation can be achieved! No-one is perfect, we've all got secrets we may never expose, and little quirks we may never understand, but that's what's called character and uniqueness. That is what makes us all who we are. And if we can accept each other for all of the little oddities and qualities, then we can continue on with the infatuation that brings us closer to each other.

To everyone reading this, go back to that memorable first kiss and think of all the thoughts you had while your lips were still locked. All the butterflies and goose bumps, tension and content.

It's always worth it.

Lulu

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